Week of October 25, 2026
Theme: The Way of Jesus: Humility That Serves
Scripture: John 13:1–17
Big Question: What does it look like to use our influence to serve rather than be served?
1. TABLE, MEAL & COMMUNION25–30 minutes
Share a MealEnjoy time around the table. Make room for everyone to participate, especially those who may be new.
GratitudeAs you eat, invite everyone to share:
Where have you experienced God's kindness this week?
Has someone served or encouraged you in a meaningful way recently?
ConfessionBefore communion, take a moment of quiet reflection.
Consider:
- Where have I expected something from others that I have been unwilling to give myself?
- Where have pride, control, or the desire for recognition shaped how I treated someone?
Allow space for silent confession. No one needs to share publicly.
CommunionAs you continue around the table, remember Jesus' sacrifice together.
Jesus gave himself for us, not because we earned his love, but because of his grace.
Share the bread and cup in remembrance of him.
PrayerThank Jesus for his grace. Ask the Holy Spirit to help your group grow in humility and love.
2. WORD & DISCERNMENT30–35 minutes
Pray Before Reading
Ask God to help everyone listen carefully to Scripture and remain open to what he wants to reveal.
Read John 13:1–17
Read the entire passage aloud together.
If helpful, invite a second person to read it again.
Observe the Passage
Take two minutes to quietly reflect or write.
Then discuss:
- What stands out to you in this passage?
- What details about Jesus' actions or words seem important?
- What questions does this passage raise for you?
Discover Together- What do you notice about what Jesus knows in verses 1–3 and what he chooses to do in verses 4–5?
- Why do you think Peter initially resists Jesus washing his feet?
- What does Jesus want his disciples to understand through his actions?
- What do you notice about the relationship between Jesus' authority and his willingness to serve?
Reflect and Respond- What makes it difficult for us to serve when we believe we deserve recognition, respect, or help?
- Where might Jesus be inviting you to lay aside pride or expectations?
- What could following Jesus' example look like in your home, workplace, friendships, or church?
A Helpful ReminderYou don't need to answer every question. Follow the conversation where Scripture leads.
If a question about the passage comes up that no one can answer, write it down. Your group may briefly use Redeemer's Custom GPT together to clarify the passage or explore its context.
Let Scripture and group discovery lead the conversation rather than allowing AI to supply all the answers.
3. SERVICE & CARE10–15 minutes
Caring for One Another
Ask:- Is anyone carrying something difficult right now?
- Where could our group offer practical help this week?
- Is there someone we could serve without expecting anything in return?
Consider one specific way to help someone inside or outside the group.
Serving might mean bringing a meal, offering childcare, helping with a project, listening, or making time for someone who feels overlooked.
Pray for One AnotherInvite people to share prayer requests.
Pray simply and specifically.
4. INVITATION & MISSION5–10 minutes
Jesus' example challenges us to move toward others with love.
Discuss:
- Who is someone you could intentionally serve or welcome this week?
Consider a neighbor, coworker, family member, or someone who has become disconnected from community.
As a group, consider who could be invited to share a future meal.
Closing PrayerAsk the Holy Spirit to make your group a community marked by humility, generosity, and love.
THIS WEEK'S PRACTICEChoose one act of humble service.
Do something that benefits another person without seeking recognition or expecting anything in return.
Pay attention to what the experience reveals about your heart.